This fall, one of my tutoring students taught me a lesson about how cheating on these essays can backfire–even if you don’t get caught.
He wanted to write his essay for the Common App on a trip he took to Guatamala to work with poor children. At one point, he confessed that he had not gone on that trip, but that his father had gone.
When I looked at him as though I thought he was nuts, he told me, in his defense, “I helped him pack!”
What? Are you kidding me?
This student kept insisting that he had no other interesting experiences that he could write about. (If you have read anything on my blog, you know that everyone has umpteen topic possibilities, and that you don’t need to travel the globe to have them.)
I gave him a brief lecture about how this was completely unethical, but he only smiled and told me that “all my friends are doing this.” (If this situation weren’t more complicated than I’m describing here, I would have booted him out on the spot.)
Upon his insistence, we pressed on with this essay of the trip that didn’t happen, and as a result, the story was cliche and dull.
It was only a description of what happened, and revealed nothing about the writer (How could it have?) The student is actually a great person, super bright, friendly, which made his complete lack of integrity on this issue all the more disappointing.
The worst thing is I really don’t think he thought he was doing anything wrong.
And I couldn’t help think about his father, who most likely put him up to this or knew about it, and how he should know better.
Sad, scary stuff, if you ask me.
These things come around, though, as they say.
By using a topic that was not authentic, the essay felt flat and dull. Not to mention writing about a do-gooder trip to a foreign country is cliche and on most admission experts’ topic no-no lists.
If this lie is going to hurt anyone, it’s going to be that student. I wonder if his father ever thought about it that way.
I will stop preaching and moralizing, but my point is that there is a reason to stay true to yourself on all levels with these essays.
Like with most cheating and lying, you might feel like you get ahead of the game, but you really will only lose in the end.
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